A friend of mine told me "my husband says I should be done with you".?

Did you have any major problems or differences throughout the time you have been friends? The fact that she is letting her husband control her or at least using him as a scapegoat says a lot about her as a person and her character, or lack thereof. It's time for you to move on, dear. She is NOT a good friend and isn't worth dwelling on. Find a new friend. Don't waste anymore time or energy thinking about this! HER loss NOT yours!