He REALLY doesnt want a big (or even small) wedding!! he wants the rings, the certificate, the kids..?

But thats it. and im polar opposite. ive subscribed to martha stewart weddings and actually considered being a wedding planner. its a joke amongst my friends. i can compromise and have a smaller or less elaborate one because after all, i do want to be his wife but realistically, how can i get him to compromise. he's a Leo... hard headed. i want to do this correctly. please help, ive tried to talk to him and he just sas its a HUGE waste of money and he cant believe id waste money like that.